And so it begins. I open at the close is my (relationship) pain-motto. Which I get doesn’t make much sense, but right now I simply don’t care. Harry Potter references just make me feel better.
Compromise is a dangerous thing. You move and move and move and move back, and don’t realise when you’ve fallen off that cliff. Or rather, been pushed off that cliff. You realise that you were backtracking towards it, facing the person who’s pushing you, not realising the edge of it is there, trusting the person you think cares won’t push you off. You struggle against the pushing, trying to push back, but not enough for them to walk away. Because you really, really, really don’t want them to leave. Some moments together have been magical, and memories of those moments make you fight to resist your own instincts to push back. But reflexes are reflexes.
Then you fall, and crash. And the jagged edges of the rocks beneath and the impact hurts. A lot. It opens up old wounds and creates new ones. Wounds that have been haphazardly sewn together, over and over again. And the person who pushed you off looks down at your broken, twisted body rather than walking away, under the guise of caring, but deep down, you wonder if it’s to appease their conscience. They think that it’s better to walk away so that you can get on with standing up, dusting yourself off and walking away – not realising that the kind thing to do is to come down to the rocks, extend an arm and help that person get back up again.
And no matter how much they say they care, actions speak louder than words.
